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Wednesday, February 04, 2004babies for thoughtyes. we were made to think how many children do we want to have or do we want to have any in the first place. my lecturer asked us to raise our hands to indicate our preference. oh yeah... like people wil really want to let the whole class know such personal indications. obviously not. but in my previous tutorial i hav taken, most of e pple in the tutorial wants one or two but not more. yeah not surprisely. every parents wants the best for their kids. more kids wil mean less for each kid. n the lifetime commitment of having a child. making sure that u are there in those special moments of his growing up process, be back into the horrid school systems u thought u are done with for the sake of ur child's studies. then faced with the looming fact that ur child is growing away from u. so why hav babies? some said wat's the point? filial piety shouldnt be expected especially in these times. yes, i think that it is something as children, we should do, it truely shouldnt be expected. it kills it for me when my parents never fail to remind me to repay them. i want to, but when i am expected to, i wonder whether i will. i think of how much i actually cost my parents, the times they spent bringing me out every sat... the sacrifices they make for us. for having children. parents are one of noblest being. nowadays where individualism is prevailing in societies it's hard to get people to give up fine dining and spa trips for screaming kids. so to ask myself that question, i used to give a very pro-government answer; three or more if i can afford it. no pun intended really. that's how i felt then. however, with a clearer view of what it involves, i will have to be rather rich. anyway wat's up with the talk on babies. i'm not talking about being a good mother just as yet. but being a good daughter. to make their sacrifices worthwhile. amaranthine froze in time on 2:20 AM
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